Is monogamy the source of cheating? Is it just unreasonable to expect that your spouse will not cheat? Does it mean that your relationship is over? Will it happen again?
It does not have to. But there are several items that you may need to look at, if you have been cheated on – or if you are the cheater.
This article from the Huffington Post lists some items to consider about cheating:
1) Cheating is not a death sentence for a relationship.
2) Cheating is lying.
3) Cheating is the easy way out.
4) The cheater needs to be the healer.
5) The cheater may cheat again.